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(L to R: Maryam, Tasneem, myself, and Fatimah)

 

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Black & Gold Birthday Soiree

September 28, 2015

Downtown Detroit, MI

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(All photos courtesy of Scott Mitchell of Worldiction Arts)

The wait is over. I am finally blogging about my Black & Gold Birthday Soiree photos last month. Although it was stressful, we had a great time. I was even able to style the models above with wardrobe courtesy of Thrift on the Ave and Green and Glamorous. Thanks loves 🙂

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My big sis came and boogied down.

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The owners of Thrift on the Ave! Go check them out in Downtown Detroit.

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The photographer of the night, Scott.

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The hubby and I.

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My friends, thanks for coming and helping and taking the verbal abuse. Ha. And of course, thanks to Madinah for the makeup.

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More of my friends!

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My buddy Dierdra and Mike.

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Model Shia and I.

Oh, and my dress was designed by myself and brought to life by two designers/seamstresses: Mahgrib of Chimiwear and Taqwa of Ziarra Collection.

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Nafeesa and Fatima.

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We had a lil’ runway competition. And Maryam won!

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My cake cutting ceremony.

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Roberto’s Bakery did a wonderful job. We smashed it.

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Thanks everyone for a fun filled evening.

And I’ll send you off with a pic of my sis dropping it like its hot. Oh, boy. lol

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I find myself falling into the fear of the stereotype of becoming the Angry, Loud Black Girl especially when it comes to business. And, especially when speaking to white men and women and NBPOC. When disagreeing, I find myself searching for non-aggressive words and phrases as not to fulfill that stereotype of Black girls are always difficult. I find myself not speaking up or letting things slide because any dissatisfaction I show will automatically make me “a bitch”. I find myself using blanket terms like “not to be difficult but...” and “I’m not trying to be a bitch but maybe...” Seems like when I assert myself, when I am straightforward, I am seen as loud, aggressive, angry, ghetto, uncultured. But when anyone else says what they want with directness then they are assertive, passionate, a great leader. Closed mouths don’t get fed. I haven’t made it this far playing it safe. I’m a Black Muslim, a triple minority in a marginalized body smashing it in several fields that hadn’t dared seen anyone who looks like me as a strong contender. As worthy. I walk into these spaces with as much confidence as a mediocre white man. So, fight me. 🤷🏽‍♀️ Do you find yourself “codeswitching” in certain spaces? Do you feel the need to be the anti-stereotype for your group/culture/religion/sex? What’s your take on this angry, Black woman stereotype? All welcome to chime in, I’d like to hear from different perspectives. 📷 @visualunicorn Fit: @theplusbus #detroitblogger #psootd #plussize #instafashion #bodypositive #bgki #effyourbeautystandards #pizzasisters4lyfe #blackgirlswhoblog #londonblogger #psfashion #muslimgirl #fatacceptance #seventeen #selflove #turbanista #honormycurves #bodydysmorphia #instabeauty #intersectionalfeminism #fashionblogger #eatingdisorderrecovery #editorial #hijabi #modestfashion #holidaystyle #streetstyle #fempreneur

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